tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17915009271666118762024-02-18T22:02:26.039-08:00About Pregnancy and ChildcareInformation about pregnancy, labor and birth, infant and childcare, parenting and the right and wrong in child discipline.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.comBlogger77125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-32170080999036447102014-08-19T21:22:00.000-07:002015-07-22T23:20:44.019-07:00Types of Birth Delivery<hr>
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1.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span><b>NATURAL BIRTH</b> – Natural birth refers to a normal delivery. Sometimes, normal delivery will bring complications, and no one is safe from those. That’s why it is necessary to check you and your baby’s physical condition so that you can anticipate any possible changes in your delivery. It is also important to discuss other option with the partner early on in your pregnancy so that he can prepare for any problem that may occur in the middle of your labor. A labor that is unplanned can be a bit scary. Unexpected medical interventions may arise and induction of labor may be required. Should any complication arise, let your birth attendants (in consultation with your partner) handle the situation.</div>
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2.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span><b>CAESAREAN SECTION (C-SECTION</b>) – A surgical procedure where the baby is removed from the uterus without passing through the cervix. A cut is made from the bottom point of the navel going down vertically and a horizontal line incision along the bikini line (just above the pubic hair).</div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span>Baby’s head is too big for the mother’s pelvic opening, making it impossible for the baby to pass through;</div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span>Incorrect fetus position (as in breech);</div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span>Mother’s health problems(herpes, vaginal infection, etc.); and</div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol;">·<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span></span>Poor contraction of the cervix, umbilical cord problems; such as when the cord slips out of the birth canal before the baby comes out</div>
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Remember, though, that if the position of your baby is normal and if you are capable of having of normal delivery (that is, if there are no complications), nobody can force you to have C-section. Though the procedure involves less pain than a normal delivery, It is much more expensive. If your doctor suggests a C-section, don’t say yes immediately. Ask her why exactly it is necessary. If you and your partner agree that it will be advantageous, then go ahead and have a C-section. Most women, however, would option for it only as a last resort, that is, when normal delivery has proven unsuccessful.</div>
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3.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span><b>FORCEPS DELIVERY</b> – as C-sections gained popularity, forceps delivery declined. Forceps are only applied nowadays when the cervix of the mother has fully dilated and the baby’s head has descended into the pelvis but fails to descend any further. It is also done when there is a sign of maternal or fetal distress. Forceps (a tong-like instrument) are placed on both sides of the baby’s head, enabling the birth attendant to pull out the baby from birth canal.</div>
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4.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span><b>EPISIOTOMY</b> – A surgical cutting of the vagina opening to expedite birth and avoid tearing. After birth, the cut is immediately stitched and the wound heals within a few days.</div>
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5.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 7pt;"> </span><b>VACUUM EXTRACTION</b> – suction is applied to the baby’s head by means of a small cup attached to a pump, making it easier for the baby to pass through the birth canal.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-66313550773938288922013-02-16T21:49:00.001-08:002015-07-22T23:20:52.923-07:00WHAT IS PREECLAMPSIA<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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first twenty-four hours after delivery. It occurs in about 7 percent of first
pregnancies and is characterized by high blood pressure and protein in the
urine. The cause of preeclampsia is not known, but it is thought to be related
to insulin resistance, obesity, a kidney disorder, or chemical imbalances. Although
it begins to develop very early in pregnancy, preeclampsia usually not
diagnosed until the third trimester. Hypertension, elevated hemoglobin level,
increased urine protein content, nausea, stomach pain, headache, and blurred
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There is no cure for preeclampsia. However, women diagnosed
with it may be given medications to reduce blood pressure. Healthful diets are
recommended for all women with this disorder. The diet should be rich in vegetables,
fruits and whole grain products. Carbohydrate-containing foods should be of the
low glycemic index variety. Some health care providers give women with
preeclampsia 1.5 to 2.0 grams of calcium per day. Calcium supplements may
effectively reduce blood pressure and appear to have few side effects. Vitamins
C and E may also be given to help prevent some of the negative consequence of
preeclampsia. This disorder should not be treated by restricting weight gain,
caloric intake, fluids, or salt (sodium). These intervention not only don't
work, but they may be harmful to both mother and fetus.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-25387921670443993852010-11-03T17:22:00.000-07:002013-09-21T19:36:11.930-07:00How to Deal with Nausea and Vomiting During Early Pregnancy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Some 70 percent of women experience nausea within the first two months of pregnancy and about half experience vomiting. These symptoms generally begin within four weeks after conception and subside by nine or ten weeks. Nausea and vomiting last throughout pregnancy in 10 to 15 percent of women. Severe or prolonged nausea and vomiting are not considered normal and should be checked out by your health-care provider.<br />
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Women who experience nausea or nausea and vomiting early in pregnancy are more than 60 percent less likely to miscarry than women who do not experience either nausea or vomiting. Increasing hormone levels that are thought to prompt nausea and vomiting may be responsible for the reduced risk miscarriage.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-85037100892070553022009-07-14T03:39:00.000-07:002013-09-16T03:21:10.179-07:00Key Nutrients for Pregnancy<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It's important to consume enough of every nutrient required during pregnancy. Certain nutrients, however, deserve a spotlight because they are most likely to be present in low amount in the diets of pregnant women. <br />
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Folic Acid, Vitamin B12, Vitamin D, Calcium,<br />Iron, Zinc, Iodine, Antioxidants, Vitamin A - <span style="color: #6666cc; font-size: 78%;">Getting enough, but not too much</span>, Protein, EPA and DHA</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-34271152553605749842009-07-08T22:49:00.000-07:002009-07-08T22:51:57.013-07:00Complete Baby Care Instructions for New Parents Video<span class="description">Complete Baby Care teaches new mothers how to care for their baby.</span><br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/LJxshHjUvPc&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/LJxshHjUvPc&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-71330093486899050612009-07-08T22:29:00.000-07:002009-07-08T22:35:06.426-07:00How To Treat Diaper Rash Video<span class="description">Treat diaper rash by applying a diaper rash cream before putting a diaper (petroleum jelly can do), giving the baby frequent baths and allowing plenty of air to reach the baby's diaper area. Prevent diaper rash by changing the diaper frequently</span> and don't put diapers that is already used.<br /><br /><object width="480" height="295"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/lhG2GwuRsME&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/lhG2GwuRsME&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="295"></embed></object>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-37025622585744112322009-07-05T02:48:00.000-07:002009-07-05T02:57:20.023-07:00Common Complaint During PregnancyIt is rare that women complete pregnancy without experiencing nausea, vomiting, leg cramps, constipation, heartburn, backaches, or other side effects. It is also rare that they aren't taken by surprise by their occurrence. The purpose of this is you help you avoid these and to present ways you can help relieve the discomfort they can cause.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Complaint During Pregnancy</span><br /><ol><li>Nausea and vomiting</li><li>Constipation</li><li>Heartburn</li><li>Iron deficiency anemia</li><li>Gestational diabetes</li><li>Preeclampsia<br /></li></ol>Because each of these conditions can become severe or may signal other problems, they should be monitored by your health-care provider and treated medically as needed.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-41130629486126989382008-10-22T11:58:00.000-07:002008-10-21T19:29:15.671-07:00CHANGES TO EXPECT DURING PREGNANCYAs previously mentioned, the major cause of the changes experienced by a woman during pregnancy is increased hormone production. Your body normally produces a few milligrams of hormones such as progesterone and estrogen is a day. But once you get pregnant, these hormones increase to at least 30 times more than the usual amount to support and nourish the fetus. The effect is felt in drastic changes in the breasts, skin, back and even pains in the stomach and head. Read on to know more about those physical changes.<o:p><br /><br /></o:p> <ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>BREASTS</u> – </b>There’s tingling sensation, tenderness and swelling. During the menstrual period, the same is experienced due to hormonal production. In pregnancy, however a more dramatic change is likely to occur because this is when your breasts start to produce milk for your baby. Your breast may have a small amount of discharge that appears like milk. It is colostrums, a pre-milk substance that’s high in protein, antibodies, and minerals. You may feel embarrassed by the leaking but it is just a minor problem that can be solved by wearing a highly absorbent bra.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>TEETH AND GUMS</u> –</b> Increased blood flow makes your teeth and gums sensitive, that’s why you may experience a swollen mouth and bleeding gums. Even before your pregnancy, you should have consulted your dentist for tooth extraction, cleaning, and X-ray. Having such procedures done during your pregnancy may be harmful.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>FREQUENT URINATION</u></b> – The pressure on the bladder by the uterus makes you feel like urinating all the time. Make it a habit to empty your bladder from time to time to avoid the inconvenience of getting out of bed and going to the bathroom when you should be sleeping in the middle of the night.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>CONSTIPATION</u></b> – Because of the enlarging uterus, there is downward pressure on the muscles and veins in the rectum, which results in inconvenience bowel movement. Dilation occurs and causes painful bowel movement. As mentioned, a high-fiber diet can prevent constipation because it is easy to digest. Drinking at least 8 glasses of water a day also aids in digestion.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>FATIGUE</u></b> – Unusual tiredness is always felt during pregnancy. Dizziness and laziness may also be felt. As the fetus grows, your increased body weight makes it difficult for you to do your normal activities. You can lessen the fatigue by taking enough rest, exercise, and proper food.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>SKIN</u></b> – The skin undergoes one of the most visible and common changes during pregnancy. Although some pregnant women have glowing complexions, others experience discoloration and acne, Skin on the underarms, neck, and other parts of the body become darker. Stretch marks become visible on the abdomen, back of the legs and thighs, and the skin texture changes from smooth to rough. However, the skin returns to its normal state after birth.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>HAIR</u></b> – Straight hair may become curly and vice versa. The hair of some women becomes shiny and vibrant while that of others may become coarse and dry. At other times, hair becomes thicker or thinner. Thinning hair is normal, though. It is passing phase and it doesn’t mean that you will go bald. However, during your pregnancy, it would be better to avoid dyeing or perm your hair as the chemicals used in those procedures may be harmful to you and your baby.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>FINGERNAILS</u></b> – In some pregnant women, Splitting or breaking of nails occurs. To protect your nails, wear gloves when working or apply strengthening cream and lotion until after delivery when the nails have returned to normal.</li><li class="MsoNormal" style=""><b style=""><u>VAGINA</u></b> – The vagina tissues changes early in pregnancy. They become more dilated in preparation for birth. During this time, the pregnant woman may lubricate more and feel a greater desire for sex. But this is not true for all women. If you experience heavy discharge, you can use a light sanitary pad. Douching is discouraged because it may harm the baby. If you discharge has a foul odor consult your gynecologist.</li></ul><br /><div><script type="text/javascript">addthis_url='<data:post.url/>'; addthis_title='<data:post.title/>'; addthis_pub='sidozzy';</script><script src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/addthis_widget.php?v=12" type="text/javascript"></script></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-13928558728318634062008-10-22T10:57:00.000-07:002008-10-21T19:30:29.113-07:00TOLERABLE EMOTIONAL CHANGES DURING PREGNANCY<p class="MsoNormal">The physical changes that occur with pregnancy will have a tremendous impact on your emotional condition. You may feel overwhelmed by your different lifestyle and the demands of starting a family. However, you can cope with these emotional changes if early on in your pregnancy, you know what to expect from motherhood. Surely there will be a lot of adjustment to make. You and your partner will bear a great responsibility not only for nine months but for the rest of your lives. That’s why the best thing to do is to gradually prepare as the birth of your baby approaches.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p><span style=""> </span>Here are some helpful tips:<o:p><br /></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 1in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="">1.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="">COPING WITH ANXIETY</b> - As a prospective mother, you are bound to have worries and anxieties. Fear of an unsuccessful delivery, possible abnormalities of your baby, and your own readiness as a parent may contribute to a feeling of helplessness. These feeling are normal for the most pregnant women. At the latter stage of your pregnancy, when the baby is about to be born, the level of anxiety may increase along with the level of excitement. You can reduce your anxiety simply by thinking pleasant thoughts: about how beautiful your baby will be and how you will do your best to be a good parent. Think positive; everything will be fine.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 1in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="">2.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="">CHANGING YOUR IMAGE </b>– When you were still single, you were always concerned about your looks, the image you presented to the outside world. But the experience of motherhood changes that pregnancy could make you feel insecure about your looks. Moreover you may see yourself as an unattractive complement to your partner. You may fear that you have lost your sex appeal, and that your partner is no longer interested in you. But you can overcome your physical insecurities simply by focusing on the positive things. Appreciate the fullness of your body and breasts. Believe that the opportunity to bear a child is actually a sexy thing. A lot of people will tell you that a pregnant woman is beautiful in her own way. And remember that beauty is also a state of mind: you just have to think that pregnancy is a wonderful gift. Some thing that enhances rather than diminishes your appearance.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 1in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="">3.<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="">CHANGING YOUR ROLE </b>– Obviously, being a single is different from being married. Being a mother is also different from being a wife. The modern woman understands all these roles. Being a wife, mother, and career woman involves considerable demands. You’re no longer just taking care of yourself; you have a family to look after. Sometimes you’ll have to put their needs ahead of yours. But take heart because juggling several roles, although stressful, can also be fulfilling. Instead of viewing your multiple roles as a heavy burden, you can enjoy your multi-faceted life by managing your time efficiently and by enlisting the support of your partner and family. The joys of being a wife and a mother make you unique and your situation special. Of course there are problems, but you will not be facing them alone. Your husband and child are at your side. Think of all your roles as opportunities to maximize your potential as a person and to strengthen your relationship with your partner and family. The pressures of family like will serve as a test of loyalty and devotion for you and your husband. The key to a successful family life is setting realistic expectations and being tolerant of different people and situations. A shared positive outlook as well as good communication will strengthen the marital bond. Take comfort in the fact that pregnancy tends to bring couples even closer together. It is not only you who’s coping with a new role; your husband is too. 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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-89799626243002532462008-05-19T03:43:00.000-07:002008-05-19T03:50:34.957-07:00Value of DisciplineThe idea behind discipline is to teach children to do what is right and not to do what is wrong. Discipline is related to the concepts of reward and punishment. Discipline involves certain rules meant to be followed by<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho9zC9BCmov_OruxYeOixlYB7Qp8X3Sl5XRsTMOzAy2NqPjrPFG6OOdV6PQRM6tbGH9kKeqv8hDSq4YUTL9tUAWCIOU-SDGpYmA3IUrafyCBWC2-G6DdymDqMxAIymz7AMjx0Vfxu_vm7H/s1600-h/Discipline.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho9zC9BCmov_OruxYeOixlYB7Qp8X3Sl5XRsTMOzAy2NqPjrPFG6OOdV6PQRM6tbGH9kKeqv8hDSq4YUTL9tUAWCIOU-SDGpYmA3IUrafyCBWC2-G6DdymDqMxAIymz7AMjx0Vfxu_vm7H/s320/Discipline.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5202039127980600098" border="0" /></a> the child. However, it also involves certain limitations on the part of the parent. No parent would want to raise a spoiled brat, and certainly all parents have the duty to discipline their children. However, no parent has the right to deal unnecessary punishment such as beating. Otherwise that’s not discipline anymore-that’s abuse.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEho9zC9BCmov_OruxYeOixlYB7Qp8X3Sl5XRsTMOzAy2NqPjrPFG6OOdV6PQRM6tbGH9kKeqv8hDSq4YUTL9tUAWCIOU-SDGpYmA3IUrafyCBWC2-G6DdymDqMxAIymz7AMjx0Vfxu_vm7H/s1600-h/Discipline.jpg"></a><blockquote> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Since children have limited minds, they do not have a full grasp of discipline yet. They usually don’t see the importance of “rules” and even if you tell them over and over not to scatter their toys, they will not follow. That’s the nature of children. In that case, patience on the part of the parent is very important. Some children actually resent being told what to do. When a certain degree of “conflict” arises between parent and child, the latter usually reacts by crying and the parent is left confused and frustrated. When such a situation arises, what are you supposed to do?<br /><br /></p></blockquote><p class="MsoNormal"></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in; font-weight: bold;" start="1" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="">DIVERT YOUR CHILD’S ATTENTION</li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in;">Babies and toddlers are easily distracted by things around them. Their attention is constantly shifting and their minds easily focus on things that are attractive to their eyes. You can distract your crying toddlers simply by handing him a unique item or a favorite toy, or you could take him out of the house to look at some beautiful plants or cute puppies. Once his attention is on something else, he will instantly stop crying.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in; font-weight: bold;" start="2" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="">CONSOLE HIM</li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in;">Explain to your child why you are setting certain rules. Tell him that those rules are for his own good. Sometimes, the more you console your toddlers, the more he cries. He may simply be trying to flush out his hurt feelings. Holding, hugging and kissing will ease his pain, and he will sense that you still love him no matter what.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <ol style="margin-top: 0in; font-weight: bold;" start="3" type="1"><li class="MsoNormal" style="">IGNORE HIM, IF NECESSARY</li></ol> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in;">Toddlers will cry more if they sense that you are annoyed by their crying. And if they are really mad, they will cry their lungs out. At that point, you may want to spank him. Control your feelings. Ignore him by leaving him or sending him out. If he notices that his crying has no effect on you, he will see that there’s no point in throwing a fit. Of course, he will stop crying when he’s tired.</p>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-31758533950888516942008-05-04T04:34:00.000-07:002008-05-04T04:41:42.397-07:00Building Self-esteem<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdH18ASiEeSOut6U6IjQZ9a6BEJ7xv-ZibtK-Q8OsQugEOMOOSn0u_lnR8a_Omoy1bdOWwyblcs0E3zQpzRYTTp3dvBzjYtszAhqsHvYwyB7V3vSOso06AQTFmiTeoSB7Rr9MRHCTkP7wV/s1600-h/self_esteem.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdH18ASiEeSOut6U6IjQZ9a6BEJ7xv-ZibtK-Q8OsQugEOMOOSn0u_lnR8a_Omoy1bdOWwyblcs0E3zQpzRYTTp3dvBzjYtszAhqsHvYwyB7V3vSOso06AQTFmiTeoSB7Rr9MRHCTkP7wV/s320/self_esteem.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5196486434732104866" border="0" /></a>In childhood, personality develops in accordance with parent’s nurturing style. There’s a lot of room for a child to develop, and it’s important at an early stage to help your child to establish a good image of him. This is where self-esteem comes in. Developing this in your child requires a long and gradual process.<o:p><br /></o:p> <p class="MsoNormal">Self-esteem is in fact related to responsibility. If you have been successful in making your child responsible, if you always compliment her efforts, chances are good that she will gain confidence in herself. She will regard herself as a worthy individual who can easily recover from her mistakes and failures and strive to do better everyday.<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">The seeds of self-confidence, self-esteem, and independence are planted when you allow your child to do things on her own, when you let her reach her potential. Of course, children often make mistakes. But if you give your child room to make decisions and choices, if you let her accomplish the goals she has set, then she will learn to regard mistakes as a normal part of life. And she will find a way to improve herself.<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">You can help your child develop self-esteem by pointing out and appreciating her strengths instead of her weaknesses. If your toddler can recite the alphabet but has not learned to count from one to ten, compliment her for knowing her ABC. Don’t criticize her inability to count; instead, find a way to make her interested in numbers. IF she’s having difficulty with a particular task, lend a hand and don’t force her to do the task perfectly. If you want your child to believe in herself, you have to believe in her first.</p>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-61551333047533357652008-04-14T00:14:00.000-07:002008-04-14T00:17:17.771-07:00The importance of responsibility<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.more4kids.info/uploads/Image/little-girl-helping-out.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 237px; height: 353px;" src="http://www.more4kids.info/uploads/Image/little-girl-helping-out.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Even at an early stage in your child’s life, you can already teach her to be responsible. Acting within one’s power and limitations is what responsibility is all about.<o:p><br /></o:p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;" class="MsoNormal">Teach you child that she’s accountable for certain things no matter how small they are. Of course, a two year-old cannot do household chores, but teaching her to be responsible to simple “commands” such as picking up crayons and sheet of paper, throwing small bit into the waste basket, or handling a toy to you – will make her understand the meaning of responsibility.<o:p><br /></o:p></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;" class="MsoNormal">As your child gets older, assign some simple task to her. Let her tie his shoelaces, make her bed, brush her teeth before bedtime, and collect scattered things in her room. Once she gets used to doing those tasks, she will think of them as her responsibility. Always compliment your child for every accomplished task. If she knows that her efforts are appreciated she will keep up the good work.<o:p><br /></o:p></p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;" class="MsoNormal">Responsibility always starts in the home. If you find it hard to teach your child responsibility, sit down and work with her. You can do house chores together. She can observe your work and you do the tasks that are manageable for her age. Keep in mind, though, that a toddler has limited mental capacities. The instructions that you give now may be forgotten in a few minutes, so you have to repeat things until your child gets accustomed to them. But your child is worth all that effort. In the future, the fruits of your labor will be apparent in your child’s relationship with the family and the community. By teaching your child to be responsible, you’re developing a valuable member of society. Responsibility begins at home.</p>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-53328170227488109922008-04-07T18:41:00.000-07:002008-04-07T18:44:09.828-07:00Nothing Beats Honesty<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlbSh-9a-e5-pzFZHBL_KEj5NhtnbS-tPRYZVPT8JWIorhRKNtDWZbDpaH1am1gSHP7yrL5b_nJHYAY_1Gka9PXgRiQooVxMVgqwHJS1cXsRch8fXMx50-U_ENYrIdQ1_MYtpRJT1gDmb6/s1600-h/home-studio-bw2-1-max.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlbSh-9a-e5-pzFZHBL_KEj5NhtnbS-tPRYZVPT8JWIorhRKNtDWZbDpaH1am1gSHP7yrL5b_nJHYAY_1Gka9PXgRiQooVxMVgqwHJS1cXsRch8fXMx50-U_ENYrIdQ1_MYtpRJT1gDmb6/s320/home-studio-bw2-1-max.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5186684174149636578" border="0" /></a> In this day and age, honesty is a trait that’s hard to come by. Everyone seems to find lying as a convenient way to protect their interests. Whatever happened to the saying “honesty is the best policy”? However, some sectors still value this character trait. In fact some believe that “Honestly is the only policy.” The impact of honesty in a person’s life may not be instantly felt, but honesty has long term implications not only for individuals but for the society in general. Honesty normally goes with responsibility, integrity, humility, trust and countless other desirable traits. <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span> How can you teach honesty to your children? First of all, bear in mind that although honesty is an abstract term, its presence and consequences can be perceived in the actual world (in the same way that dishonesty and its effect can easily be observed). You can’t exactly teach your children honesty by defining the term in so many words, but you can always encourage your children to be honest.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span> One way to instill honesty among your children is not to confront them about mistakes that you know they will deny. Children feel nervous when they are confronted with their mistakes. Because of fear, they tend to lie and cover their misdeeds with repeated lying. So instead of confronting your children when he or she has done something wrong, try talking to him in a mild way. Say something like “James, please pick up the books you left on the floor” instead of saying, “Who scattered those books?” If you ask who did something, the children will be compelled to point to other people because he is afraid of being punished. But by telling him to clean up his own mess, he will have no opportunity to lie and he will realize that he should put his books and other belongings in their proper place.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span> Another important way to teach honesty is to be honest yourself. Sometimes, children become dishonest because they imitate what their elders are doing. If he sees you taking money from your partner’s wallet without asking permission, or if you intentionally do not return the excess change for something you brought at a store, he will think that those actions are alright. When he’s an adult he will not hesitate to steal or cheat because of the mistaken belief that he can get away such behavior. Imagine if he catches you having am affair and, when confronted, you lie about it. In that case, are you teaching honesty? What impression are you giving your child?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=""> </span> Setting an honest example will help your child realize what you want him to be. If you lie to your child but you get angry when he lies. Then your child will be confused. Remember also that trust is closely linked to honesty. If you lose your child’s trust, then you’ll never be able to teach him to be honest.</p>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-21814297155894656482008-04-03T03:58:00.000-07:002008-04-03T04:02:12.809-07:00Samples of unpleasant behaviors<blockquote>Samples of unpleasant behaviors:<br /><br /><ul><li>Yelling at one another even if they are near to each other</li><li>Squabbling or quarreling in front of other people</li><li>Stealing</li><li>cursing</li><li>cheating</li><li>lying</li><li>Littering<br /></li><li>Vandalism</li><li>Jaywalking</li><li>Taking illegal drugs</li><li>Alcohol (drinking)<br /></li><li>and Smoking</li></ul><br /></blockquote>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-80879220054955405362008-04-03T03:51:00.000-07:002008-04-03T03:58:01.249-07:00What other good manners should teach them?What other good manners should you teach your children?<br /><ul><li>Saying "thank you" and learning to appreciate everything they have received</li><li>Saying "please" when asking for something; making a request, not a demand</li><li>At mealtimes, not farting or burping at the table; saying "excuse me" if the huge cannot be controlled</li><li>Not throwing food or talking while the mouth is full; respecting the food at the table; sitting up properly when eating.</li><li>Not interrupting other people during conversations and not shoving their way between people; saying "excuse me" and "sorry" if they are disturbing anyone.</li><li>Respecting each other's belongings and asking permission to borrow anything that belongs to another person<br /></li></ul>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-24028069150317306172008-04-03T03:42:00.000-07:002008-04-03T03:51:08.622-07:00Good manners and right conductAll parent want their children to be accepted by society, that's why they teach what is traditionally called "good manners and right conduct". This is a very broad area that involves table manners ( for example, using spoon and fork correctly), the right way to treat older people, and proper behavior in a public place, among others.<br /><br />Good manner are best taught during the crucial toddler years. At this stage, children are highly impressionable. Anything you teach them, whether good or bad (hopefully good) will stick to their minds and influence them from the rest of their lives. Although outward manners alone do not reflect a person's total character, they will help your child cope easily with the society in which they are growing up.<br /><br />Bear in mind that your child's behavior, both at home and in the company of other people, will reflect on you as parent. If your child is kind, respectful, and considerate, the people around you will think that you're doing a wonderful parenting job.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-10260303263629035832008-03-29T21:41:00.000-07:002008-03-29T22:30:21.585-07:00Why a good example as a parent important?<div style="text-align: justify;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFFzP7O-W1Ovlst68hmAn30F9TwLRF6sjWE7lRJ1XpspzGzkcjO1nU6iW9o_UEwdiME9W300VF9M1xeTLgYW4Lc6GFizBh2oOiL92n0JUx2rYrBcNtsjQINqODrOVsOoD2H8y9Ssh1lFOJ/s1600-h/bw2-6-max.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFFzP7O-W1Ovlst68hmAn30F9TwLRF6sjWE7lRJ1XpspzGzkcjO1nU6iW9o_UEwdiME9W300VF9M1xeTLgYW4Lc6GFizBh2oOiL92n0JUx2rYrBcNtsjQINqODrOVsOoD2H8y9Ssh1lFOJ/s200/bw2-6-max.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5183391806839345490" border="0" /></a>Every child learns by example. That means your behavior is one of the most important things to consider in raising your child. Be careful that he does not see any negative behavior and attitude for he will definitely imitate it. And, as mentioned, the role of parent as a teacher last for a lifetime. You have a duty to set a good example even when your children are independent and are themselves parents.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><blockquote></blockquote><span style="font-size:130%;">What you can do</span><br /></span><ol><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Don't make comparisons</span>. Its very easy to compare things, incidents and people when you are teaching your children. Don't compare your kids with other children. Every individuals has his or her own distinct qualities. (No two people, not even twins, are alike.) Each child has personal timetable to grow and learn, so don't force your child to be what he is not nor to imitate "better" children.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Don't spoil your children</span>. Over-affectionate parents misrepresent their actions by giving their kids too much. Such behavior stems from the belief that if you love your child, give her everything she wants. But that's not an effective parenting principle. If you love your child, don't give her too much so that she won't abuse you. Although you intend to provide and not to deprive, overemphasis on material things will spoil your children. Some busy parent try to compensate for their inadequate time with their kids by giving and buying almost everything the kids wish for. Isn't your time and presence more valuable than your presents? Let your children learn the hard way and reward them after accomplishing certain tasks. Show them that thing he wants is worth having if he "works" for it. Teach them to exert effort.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Watch your behavior always</span>. This is related to setting a good example. You may want to teach your child good behavior, but if you don't change your negative ways first, how can he learn from you? If you are in the habit of criticizing others, if you're hard to please, boastful, and materialistic, you child won't benefits from your teaching. No one is perfect, but if you nurture the positive aspects of your character and establish an atmosphere of love, respect and discipline in your home, then you will be a succesful parent.<br /></li></ol><br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-379322850459229012008-03-29T10:13:00.000-07:002008-03-29T10:31:38.948-07:00Being a parent and a teacher<div style="text-align: justify;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGEWGFOVHBYOCqXASxm5oR2Hehzm5iVAQC-CNz_7ls5KcH6c8bfrhjDwUAEjdqQ2NT5Apu0_2RFkE8L8cCsd4ya638BCz2yiMZ-GP2okWb9YPk-_ZwQuVM8n9RkAiL0OhjMXaHw3nmTZke/s1600-h/location2-3-max.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGEWGFOVHBYOCqXASxm5oR2Hehzm5iVAQC-CNz_7ls5KcH6c8bfrhjDwUAEjdqQ2NT5Apu0_2RFkE8L8cCsd4ya638BCz2yiMZ-GP2okWb9YPk-_ZwQuVM8n9RkAiL0OhjMXaHw3nmTZke/s200/location2-3-max.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5183217487001702722" border="0" /></a>A child begins to learn from the day she was born. You, the parent, are her first teacher. Your every words and every act is a lesson that your child can learn from. Your teaching does not stop the moment your child goes to pre-school. It is a task and responsibility that goes on through life, regardless of your child's academic level or his professional achievements.<br /><br />As a parent, you're responsible not only for providing your child's material needs. You have a moral responsibility to teach your child about life itself so that he'll grow up to be a healthy and happy individual who will in turn raise healthy and happy children.<br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-30892661936038697862008-03-28T06:55:00.000-07:002008-03-28T07:24:42.319-07:00How to communicate with your kid<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.crc-renfrewcounty.com/hanen%20motherandchild.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://www.crc-renfrewcounty.com/hanen%20motherandchild.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a>Even before your child learns to talk, he will use bodily gestures to express his feeling. As he grows, he is able to express himself through language. Because language is new to your child, he loves to experiment with it. He imitates every word he hears.<br /><p class="MsoNormal">Your child actually learns his language from you. So it is your responsibility to teach him correct and polite verbal communication. Speak in the same way, and he will learn to speak in the same way. If you talk in a loud and intimidating tone, so he will. Yelling and using foul words is never advisable since it will frighten your child and reduce his self-esteem.<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Remember that your child’s personality is influenced by the environment he’s growing up in. It is widely acknowledge that happy and mild-mannered parent raise happy and well-adjusted children.<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">In establishing good communication at your home, respect is essential. Next to love, this is the most important thing that you can instill in your child’s impressionable mind. Some people think that it’s only children who owe their parents respect. They think it’s alright for parents to badmouth their kids when the latter have done something wrong.<o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">However, in a positive family environment, parents also treat their children with respect. Respect is about tolerating one’s imperfections and at the same time guiding one toward self-improvement. Isn’t guidance one of the duties of a parent?<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Certainly there will be times when your child will do something wrong, something that wrong, some thing that totally upsets you. If you always point out your children’s shortcoming without acknowledging their positive qualities, they will grow up feeling worthless. Parent should be humble enough to admit that they also make mistakes- and that, when they were young, they had their own share of embarrassing experiences. Perhaps your child also feels embarrassed when he does something wrong, You can point out and correct his mistake in a gentle yet authoritative manner.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://doclibrary.com/MSC56/IMG/ppirc_tc_involvedparents2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://doclibrary.com/MSC56/IMG/ppirc_tc_involvedparents2.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Be considerate of your child’s needs. Even id he’s just a toddler, he already deserves to be treated as an individual. Do not think that your toddler is just a pretty little thing that you can show off to other people. Children, just like adults, have demands that should net be ignored. During a trip to the mall, for instance, expect that your toddler would go thirsty, need to go to the toilet, or get upset for some odd reason. Be patient when these things happen. Do not be annoyed that you’re shopping or your meal is disrupted. Most of all, do not berate your child in public.<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">If your child is throwing a tantrum and you’re beginning to get angry take him to a quite corner and talk to him calmly.<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Recognizing your child’s need-and understanding his personality quirks-is a sign of love and respect for him. It’s also a way to gain his love and respect.</p>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-45203691874931864512008-03-17T07:27:00.000-07:002008-03-17T07:41:07.290-07:00Administering Health and HygieneHealth and hygiene are essential aspects of child rearing. Administering health and hygiene actually starts at birth. A child with a mother who is health-conscious is a very lucky. For sure, as your child grows up, you will be be teaching him to brush his teeth, wash his hands before eating, etc. As a mother, you always want to protect your child ( and your whole family) from ailments, thats why any sign of illness in your toddler has you rushing him to the doctor. But if you know how to maintain cleanliness in your household, there's less risk for anyone in your family to contract a disease. Take note of the following tips:<br /><blockquote></blockquote><ol><li>Avoid sharing personal items like towels, cups, toothbrushes, undergarments and combs.</li><li>Disinfect your house regularly, including the toilet, kitchen, bedrooms, etc.</li><li>Reduce germs by washing your hands before eating and washing raw food to be cooked.</li><li>Keep your child away from pets, or make sure that your pets are clean and healthy.</li></ol><br /> Also, keep these things ready in case your toddlers get sick:<br /><ul><li>Thermometer to monitor his temperature</li><li>Dropper for medicine and vitamins</li><li>Medicine dispenser</li><li>Petroleum jelly for chapped lips and dry skin</li><li>Cream or ointment for diaper rash</li><li>Ice packs for unexpected bumps and bruises</li><li>Band-aids and gauze for unwanted wounds and cuts</li><li>Suction syringe for a congested nose</li><li>Anti-itch lotion for allergies and insect bites</li><li>Moisturizing soaps and lotions</li><li>Antiseptic, alcohol, and cotton for cleaning wounds</li></ul>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-87360188548967685102008-03-08T23:22:00.000-08:002008-03-08T23:33:23.821-08:00Taking care of children during bedtimeGetting a child to bed is a challenge for any parent, especially those with hyperactive toddlers who are in the habit of playing even in the middle of the night. But sleep is necessary to regain one's energy (this applies to both children and adults). What will you do if your child can't sleep ever after you've given her a glass of warm milk? If you're too tired from work, perhaps you can hold in your arms and sing a lullaby until she falls asleep. You can also read to her a bedtime story until she drifts off to dreamland. But if stories still work, don't force your toddler to sleep. Try the following tips instead:<br /><br /><ol><li>Play, talk, or even dance with her, These activities will exhaust her and pretty soon she'll be dozing off.</li><li>Give a warm bath (depending on her health condition) to relax her and make her fall asleep.</li><li>Feed her a small meal or a snack. When a kid's stomach is full, she tends to become sleepy.</li></ol>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-20773357034512537802008-02-05T05:11:00.000-08:002008-02-05T05:21:18.020-08:00Bath Time for Baby<div style="text-align: justify;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.smilechild.co.uk/images/CAT_4.gif"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px;" src="http://www.smilechild.co.uk/images/CAT_4.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a>Have you ever know a toddler who hates to take a bath? Most toddlers love taking a bath. For them, bath time is the most enjoyable activity of the day. But not at all children have a positive attitude to bathing. In fact, even a child who loves the water may sometimes run away from it. It's really up to the mother to encourage her toddler to take a bath. In any case, here are some things to keep in mind for the safety of your child at bath time.<br /></div><ol style="text-align: justify;"><li>Check the combination of hot and cold water. Extreme temperatures may harm your child's skin and health.</li><li>If you have a bathtub, keep the water level low to prevent drowning.</li><li>Never leave your child alone. You do not know what he may do (taste the soap, hurt his eye, slip on the tile, etc.)</li><li>Start the bath early (depending on your geographical location). Toddlers can adapt to the climate in their area. Choose the time that you think your child is most comfortable with.</li><li>Keep your child seated. Let him stand if necessary to clean up unreachable parts.</li><li>Don't allow him to drink bath water.<br /></li></ol>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-14419898644614245202008-02-05T04:49:00.000-08:002008-02-05T05:22:31.665-08:00Childcare Routine<div style="text-align: justify;"> Your toddler is the most endearing creation you will ever have in your home. Surely you will be delighted by everything he does. Most of the time you spend with him will be playtime, and you will have a lot of fun together as he grows up. However, rearing a toddler is not all fun; it requires a lot of work because you want to keep him comfortable and happy at tall times.<br /><br /> Here are some common childcare activities, including some problems related to them, that every mother should be familiar with.<br /><br /></div><ol style="text-align: justify;"><li><a href="http://pregnancyandchildcareinfo.blogspot.com/2008/02/bath-time-for-baby.html">BATH TIME</a></li><li>BED TIME</li><li>ADMINISTERING HEALTH AND HYGIENE<br /></li></ol><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1791500927166611876.post-48669629534312416692008-01-31T05:02:00.000-08:002008-01-31T05:21:17.004-08:00What is balanced diet?<div style="text-align: justify;"> A balanced diet is a combination of food groups containing the essential vitamins, minerals and proper nutrients to nourish one's health. Sweets (chocolates, soft drinks, ice cream, etc.), fatty and junk foods (potato chips), and processed meats such as hotdogs (which contain nitrates that are bad for the health) are not on the list of nutritious foods.<br /><br /> A balanced diet for your growing baby should contain the following items, which have been determined by nutrition experts as essential to one's health:<br /><br /></div><ul style="text-align: justify;"><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">FOOD RICH IN VITAMIN A</span> should be served at least once a day. Some sources are carrots, sweet potatoes, spinach and apricots.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">FOOD RICH IN VITAMIN C</span> provide protection from allergies and colds. Sources are guavas, tomatoes, oranges, pineapples and other citrus fruits. Avoid canned fruit with heavy syrup because it has sugar content.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">FIBERS</span> apples, potatoes, pears, oats bananas, and strawberries are fibrous foods that aid digestion. These should be served once a day.</li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">GREEN LEAFY VEGETABLES</span> should be served several times a week.</li></ul><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /> Try to get these foods, integrate them in your diet and give them to your child several times a week and he'll grow up healthy. It's also important for parents to have good eating habits that can be passed on to their children.<br /><br /> Keep your child away from caffeinated beverages such as softdrinks, coffee or tea or sugar rich foods like ice cream and candies<br /><br /> Avoid processed foods that have a lot of salt, sugar and fat. Quickie meals, such as noodles that contain preservatives, food coloring and additives, are not healthy.<br /><br /> Be choosy with food because it will determine your child's physical health. Remember that growing children are attracted to sweet and processed foods. If your child gets used to having a hotdogs and a glass of coke for lunch simply because you let him, you'll never be able to raise him as a healthy (and health-conscious) individual. Establish a healthy diet and good eating habits in your family. After all, "mom knows best".<br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07292950882012381206noreply@blogger.com0